What appears to be Unpleasant may be a Blessing!

When something occurs we are not pleased about often we hear that it is "A  Blessing in Disguise".  We get it, but somehow it does not resinate with us as much as it should.  We are upset because something we enjoyed may have changed or someone didn't behave in the manner in which we feel we deserve or anything else that did not meet our set of standards and understanding in one form or another.
Our ego wants us to rear up and shout from the rooftops:  UNFAIR!!!  Sooo NOT COOL!!  How could it BE?!  and right now that is EXACTLY what I want to do.
So, let's find the blessing!  No matter what the issue may be, we really need to take a step back, a deep breath, not dwell there, learn to let it go, and move ON!!  The lesson is really what matters.  Hmmm, some thought as to why you may have attracted the incident (we actually do attract EVERYTHING that happens in our lives and this is GOOD news!) and peeling back of layers beneath the surface to why it truly is upsetting to you.  This is profound, and takes some tough skin to analyze and be willing to look truth in the face.  Remember, anything that occurs in your universe has ONE common denominator, and that is YOU!
Then and seriously it is this easy . . . move ON!!! Let it go!  Learn from it and if you see the truth behind the incident you will realize this particular type of upset NEVER needs to cross your path again!  The reason it did is for us to continue to learn how to attract what we want, not what we don't want.  It takes some practice and deep, cellular belief to sink in. Next time the warning lights begin to blink we are aware and confident and can put the brakes on.
I know what you're thinking, but some things just take place that you do not have any control over, but it still affects your world.  For example; your favorite restaurant goes out of business, your friend moves far away, your best massage therapist changes careers . . it could be anything.  So, maybe you didn't directly attract the occurrence into your life, but you may have attracted the lesson.  The lesson could be how to cope with change, adapt and become more carefree; be genuinely happy for another's success; whatever.
The point is we all need to see the blessing every single time and before you know it you've altered your world to be exactly what you wish for.  Now isn't that delightful!

Always Remember;
You are your own GURU and you can do anything you set your mind and heart to!

Peace ~

Your Quest Conductor TM,    (Quest ~ In Search of; a journey   Conductor ~ Directs the performance)

Dawnkristi

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Svens European Cafe (see first post for address info).
Wednesday Evening January 26th 7:00 - 8:00 pm
Feelin' GuruVee TM Workshop.
Our topic:
Assertive or Aggressive?   Learn the difference between these words and see the light!

Wauwatosa WAC (see first post for address info).

Thursday Evening January 27th 6:30 - 7:30 pm 

Feelin' GuruVee TM 10- Week Workshop

Our topic:
Cleanse & De-tox Your Mind.  Let's create new thought patterns for the New Year ahead.